Wednesday, November 25, 2009

ARE INTERNET guys ie those you date via a WESITE all Desperate or Weird?

Any stories to tell from internet dating??



ARE INTERNET guys ie those you date via a WESITE all Desperate or Weird?ie



honey they are weird!!! and i really cant explain it... i mean if you are on a depression page and all of a sudden they want to know whats wrong with you and then they ask you for pictures and then ask you for a date or to meet you somewhere then they have some serious issues. and are desperate



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my dad does it and he's a good man, but the world is trouble, take care of yourself. but remember "alot of nice things turn bad out there."



-CS
The women are even worse.
Well all of them are weirdos but the ones that are actually serious about internet dating are also very desperate.
No I am actually meeting my e-harmony match for the first time this week, he is really sweet and I think that this could be the start of a great relationship and even turn into more...E-harmony is the best of them out there in my opinion. Their personality test with the 29 dimensions really does match you up with people that you will get along with.
well i kind of think its wierd because its not traditional but that is definitely changing. like all these girls think im amazing (well at least i hope they were girls) think im nice funny and amazing because i never have anything bad to say. i guess some people use it as practice to build up enough strength to go out and try it in real life with out having to feel shy or confused about their feelings
Many are normal. The Internet is just one more way of communicating--consider how little you know about a guy you meet at a club, bar, or a church for that matter.



A stranger, is a stranger, is a stranger. But also, when talking online you cannot detect the many nonverbal behaviors that would help you judge the intentions of a new person you encounter in the physical world.



Building a great friendship takes measured amounts of caution and courage, no matter how you meet.
A lot of people are doing it, however just as in every dating scene you need to be careful.



1. Do not post personal information on a site, like address, phone number, first last name. A simple summary of interest and what you are looking for is more than enough.



2. Get to know the person prior to meeting, exchange emails, Instant messages for awhile. Try to get as good a sense as you can. Still keep personal information to a minimum.



3. If you do decide to meet them, make it an afternoon date in a neutral public location such as a coffee shop.



Just as with every scene you will get your fare share of wackos. You do however need to take extra precautions in guarding your information on the Internet. As it is out there for everybody to see.



It isn't weird, It isn;t for the desperate. Long before the Internet their were chat lines and personal columns in the news papers. Many people don't have the time to join groups, or go out with the intent of finding a mate. The Internet is basically an efficient way to screen many candidates in a minimal amount of time.



I am yet to try it out, however many of my friends and colleagues are doing it, some have had wonderful experiences and met some really wonderful people, whereas some have not been so lucky. It is a gamble just as any other dating scene.
Yeah they are - I have put on my blog that I want to meet other women only - so that I can enjoy the pleasure of another woman and yet all I get are guys wanting to webcam with me and show me their erect penises!!! They are all weird.
Are internet girls all desperate and weird?



There are a lot of guys over 6' tall who are muscular and a great job, I know I am competing with many of them online. Online dating is much harder than dating in real life in my opinion. That is why I gave up online dating and date the old fashion way, it is much easier for me that way.
I actually just married a man I met on a Yahoo chatroom. He's from England and I'm from America...we started talking online almost 4 years ago. Finally a year after that he flew over to meet me. We talked every day (and visited as often as possible of course) and then he asked me to marry him during one of his visits here in 2005. We got married in England last September and we're now currently living in America.



So no, not all of them are desperate or weird! :-)
I found my first relationship via the net %26amp; she was pyscho. In my experience of male friends who've done it many were players not desperate. (All men are desperate when they are younger than 25.) Werido I think yes there are a few but my G/F %26amp; her friends found some ok ones. For me it was because I had no link to women, had completely no confidence, %26amp; it was easy. Gd luck you always have a choice to run!
Hmm ... plenty of stories. And no, I'm not weird or desperate. Certainly met a few weird people along the way, though ...



Internet relationship #1: Met via one-and-only.com and she was, admittedly, a rebound from my first love. She was nice enough, and we enjoyed each other's company, but there was no spark and I was carrying too much baggage.



Internet relationship #2: The one who broke my heart. Met her via Y! Personals. We hit it off, met a few times, and it really seemed to be going places. Then she had to have surgery on her jaw. Couldn't talk, so we e-mailed all day. I would e-mail her when I got to work in the morning, and whenever she got online, she would send me an e-mail, and away we would go.



On May 25, 2001, I sent her my morning e-mail, then got so busy that I never noticed she didn't answer. Approximately four hours after I clicked the "send" button, she died of an allergic reaction to an antibiotic she had been put on after her surgery. This being a Friday, and a holiday weekend, I didn't find out until Tuesday.



I remember opening up my e-mail and clicking on what I thought was an e-mail from her. It was from her brother, relaying the news to me. The last thing I remember is very quietly asking my coworker to wake me up, I was having a horrible nightmare.



Internet relationship #3: Met a woman via a Christian personals website. For our first meeting, we went to a twentysomething-oriented service at her church, where I discovered that she didn't want to admit to how she had met me.



Internet relationships # 4, 5, and 6: all had the exact same reaction: "I thought it was a typo when you said in your profile that you're 4'6"." (I am a dwarf.)



Internet relationship #7: Also met via Y! Personals. This one had no problem with my height. My hearing loss was a bigger problem. She didn't like repeating herself, being stared at (I read lips), or me sitting close to her (so sound wouldn't have to carry so far).



I came home from that date and was so frustrated. Ironically, I had found Internet personals to be much more effective in generating potential dates because I had more of a chance to be evaluated on my own merit as a person, not on my disability. Even so, my disability kept presenting an issue. It then occurred to me, "I wonder if there are any dating sites out there that cater to people with disabilities?"



This is how I found lovebyrd.com, which led to ...



Internet relationship #8: we're getting married on 03/17/07 :-)
I might be desparate but certainly not weird. But you girls always seem to want the impossible, whereas us guys will make do with what we can get.
I met my partner over the internet, shes great. Im a real catch though, so shes really lucky...lol
met one who was both am afraid....turnedout to be a completelooser and liar and cheat and abuser predator all these things. Glad to be rid and the nextin line and the one after and teh one after that all have my sincere condolences. Should come with a neon sign flashing a warning to all in his future.



SO the moral of the tale.....be very very careful........coshave also heard of happy endings.
Just lonely like so many other people. However there are some weirdos and one I came across and luckily never met, asked me if I had 666 on my head!!!!!!!!!!! Think he had a fetish for the dark side. I told him no, just 333 as Im only a little devil LOL
Been there, done that-I met my boyfriend on American Singles but before I met him I went on some dates with some really nice guys and met a couple wackos in between. If you meet them, meet them in a place where there are people around or your friends, never meet anyone alone. Good luck.
Not if you use a quality site and choose carefully. Try http://www.hubtalk.com . It's a great resource for quality dating and singles sites!

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